Sunday, December 14, 2014

Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception - 12.8.2014

I don't know how to put my homilies up on the RCC website yet, so I will post here.  This is my homily from the Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception on Monday.

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Thursday, June 12, 2014

Reflections: Four Years in the Eternal City

There is a line in the 1998 song Closing Time by SemiSonic which goes, “Every new beginning comes from some other beginnings end.”  I feel that it is an appropriate quote as I make these reflections on my time in Rome on the brink of priestly ordination on June 21st.  This past week, I was asked to give some words at a fundraiser for the NAC (The North American College, which is where I lived in Rome) in New Orleans.  As I thought about what I might say, what was unique about my time in seminary in Rome, one word made its way into my thoughts that seemed to tie what I wanted to say together: Friendship.  There are three different areas of friendship that I would like to focus on to describe my four years of formation in Rome.
Dinner with some friends as we travel.
The first type of friendship is friendship in the traditional sense.  One of the tough things about studying theology in Rome is that we do not come home very often.  For most of us, the first summer is spent away from home.  That means that we have amazing, once in a lifetime opportunities during those 2-3 months, but it also means that we do not see family, friends, or home for almost 2 full years.  Because of that, I think that the men at the NAC form deep, lasting friendships with each other, and this was certainly true for me.  As I prepared to leave Rome and head back to South Louisiana for good, I was obviously very happy to be returning home.  However, there were many things that I realized I would miss about Rome, and perhaps the thing that I will miss most is living in a house with so many close friends.  Though I made many friends, there were about 10-15 men to whom I became particularly close.  Our bonds of friendship were deepened due to our common experience of being away from home, our going through classes at the university together, the common formation we received at the NAC, and the many wonderful opportunities we had to travel together all over Europe.  In the days before I left I had to say goodbye to a few friends who managed to finish finals before me.  On the day of my clap-out (a NAC tradition for those returning home), I had to say goodbye to many more friends who were finishing up their finals.  It was hard because I realized that I would never see some of them again in this life.  Though it was difficult, I was comforted by two thoughts.  The first was that I know that I will see many of the men with whom I am close again.  We have already made a pact to get together each year in a different hometown of one of us so that we can all experience the wonderful places from which we come.  The second, and even more important thing that consoled me as I said goodbye was the hope that I have that we will all be together again one day in heaven.  After all, that is the goal for each one of us, to get to heaven and to take others there with us!
The Angelus on my last Sunday in Rome.
Tomb of St. Catherine with white roses.
The second type of friendship that I developed while in Rome is with the Church/The Holy Father/the Saints.  Being in Rome, you get a sense for the Church in a way that I don’t think you can anywhere else.  That is not saying that those who study elsewhere can’t love the Church, no.  However, there is something about being in the Eternal City and being among the dealings of the Church.  One of the most powerful experiences that I had of the Church while there is being able to attend the events surrounding the conclave and the election of Pope Francis.  Seeing the Church at prayer (and at work) was a wonderful experience, and I don’t think I have ever felt more Catholic than when I was standing in St. Peter’s Square that night watching the white smoke come out of the chimney of the Sistine Chapel and all of the other events that unfolded.  One of the missions of the NAC is to form men in the “shadow of St. Peter’s,” and to send them home with a great love for the Holy Father.  I can honestly say that this goal has certainly been achieved in my time there.  Finally, Rome, like no other place, is filled with the stories and bodies of the saints.  Being in Europe, one also has access to other places which house the bodies of the saints.  Perhaps a story can bring home what I want to say about the saints.  This past Saturday I was blessed to be able to serve as deacon for the priestly ordination of 4 men in the Archdiocese of New Orleans.  As part of the ordination rite, all of us present prayed a Litany of the Saints for the 4 men being ordained as they laid prostrate on the ground.  As we went through the list of saints names and asked them to pray for these men, I couldn’t help but think of my encounters with these holy men and women of God.  Each time they would invoke a saint to whom I have a particular devotion, I would think of how my friendship with that saint began and the time that I was able to visit their tomb.  For the sake of brevity I will recall only two.  St. Therese of Lisieux:  My devotion to St. Therese began at St. Ben’s, when one of the men being ordained in New Orleans introduced me to her.  She has followed me throughout my time in formation and has been a great help to me in difficult times.  She has also reassured me many times of my call to the priesthood by sending me white roses when I have doubted that call.  I was able to pray at her tomb in Lisieux in December of 2010.  St. Catherine of Siena:  I took a class on St. Catherine last semester and she quickly became a new favorite saint friend of mine.  She has constantly called me to suffer well, and she has given me a great example of how to do that!  She is buried in Rome, and I had the privilege of visiting her tomb often.  She teamed up with St. Therese on my last visit to Catherine’s tomb the day before I left Rome.  When I walked into Santa Maria Sopra Minerva (Where Catherine is buried) there were white roses all over…very comforting as I prepared to return home to be ordained in a few weeks!  There are many other stories and many other saints, but this gives you an idea of the types of friends I made while in Rome!  There are two reasons for including the Church, the Holy Father, and the Saints all in one.  The first is that 3 types of friendship is easier to remember than 4 or 5.  The second is that they belong together.  The Saints and Holy Father mean nothing if they are not connected to the Church.  If they are not connected to the Church, they lose what makes them special, they cease to be what they are.
Serving with Pope Francis for the 2014 Easter Vigil.
I have certainly saved the best and most important for last.  The third friendship that grew during my time in Rome is my friendship with Jesus Christ.  This was fostered by my friendship with the men in the house, by the Church/the Holy Father/the Saints, and by the constant reminder that the most important thing in formation is growing in my relationship with our Lord.  In his regular conferences to the house, the rector would always remind us to stay faithful to our daily personal pray, including our holy hour and devotions.  He would also remind us of the importance of attending Mass daily, receiving the Sacrament of Reconciliation regularly, remaining faithful to the Liturgy of the Hours, and fostering our devotion to the Blessed Mother.  All of these things are so important if any of us, priests, religious, or laity, want to grow in our love for Christ and His Church.  Being away from home also helped in the growth of my friendship with Christ.  There were many moments when I felt alone, especially early on in my time at the NAC.  One moment in particular stands out in my mind as I write.  It was a Sunday early on in my time in Rome, perhaps during the first semester.  As we finished Mass around 10:45, I thought about how if I were home I would be leaving to go to my grandmother’s house for Sunday lunch with the family.  As I thought about this I was saddened by how far away my family was.  Feeling like I had no one to turn to, I realized that I did have a friend who would never let me down, who would never be far from me, and that I HAD to turn to Him.  My friendship with Jesus grew at times out of a type of necessity, but more than that, it grew out of a realization of how much He loves me.  Realizing this love that God has for me, and growing in my love for Him has made me happier than I have ever been.  I will be forever grateful for the NAC and for my time in Rome for helping me to grow in that love.
Saying goodbye is never easy.  As I have had to say goodbye many times in the last couple of weeks, I am comforted by the fact that “Every new beginning comes from some other beginnings end.”  I am so incredibly happy to be back home among the great people of the Diocese of Lafayette who have supported me so much through these last 6 years.  I look forward to all that is in store in this new beginning which will begin with ordination to the priesthood in just a few days, and my arrival on the UL campus at Our Lady of Wisdom on July 1st!

In Christ,

Dcn. Patrick